June 3rd, 2008 Charlottesville’s Mary Williams Senior Center is a nice place to visit. I’ve been there several times to speak and conduct poetry workshops, a very convenient location, just around the block. I have discovered that this group of participants would rather listen than write, so I jumped at the opportunity when they contacted me to come and talk about my experience as Ms. Wheelchair Va. They were very excited about reading about me in the paper. They were so sweet and kind and asked many questions. I told them about the program, show them pictures and recited my platform speech. “We are proud of you Ms. Rose” they said. “It’s never too old to try new things,” I replied as I encourage them to do the same. It was a great day with friends in the neighborhood. I should have taken my teapot!

~ Rose ~

June 14th, 2008 A fun day in the sun in Keysville, Va. Angie Wilkerson Ms. Wheelchair Va. 2005-06 and her husband James hosted a pool party at their lovely home for all contestants and companions, coordinators, board members, volunteers. Four titleholders, family and friends were there, including Ms. Pam Cobler, MWVA Executive Director. Sweet Faith, our Assistant Coordinator was also present. James was our chef. He grilled hamburgers and hot dogs to go along with delicious sides that were provided. Then it was time for a swim. The pool was four and a half feet deep and accessible. Nice temperature too thanks to the sun. After we ate, one by one, we began our swim. My sweet friend and companion/chauffer Krista assisted me. I suddenly had a flashback to when I did water aerobics with Big Bob, my former recreation swim coach. I told Krista she would make a good one too. I was eager to get out of the pool because our friend, Ben Helmandollar had promised me a ride on his three-wheeler motor bike. Yes, that’s right. I had ridden a Harley two-wheeler when I was still walking with my renegade friend Ken Bare. Ben picked me up and sat me in the passenger seat. Helmet first. He commented that the helmet looked better than the crown. I doubt that though. We cut through the yard several times and down the road to the stop sign and then he kicked it up some more. I had a blast. I learned that day that I still have a little renegade in me. It was definitely a fun day in the sun!

~ Rose ~

June 24th, 2008 Fishersville, VA I was invited to a ribbon cutting celebration for the grand opening of the S.T.A.R. accessible trail (Supporting Therapeutic Access to Recreation) at Woodrow Wilson Rehabilitation Center in Fishersville, Va. the home of Ms. Wheelchair Va. Inc. I got a big welcome even before I could get out of the van. Everyone was so glad to see me again. They hadn’t seen me since the crowning event. The half mile crushed stone trail is an absolute beauty, with lots of shrubs, trees and park benches surrounding a lake with fishing piers, a picnic area, an across-over bridge to an island, fitness stations designed to work and build muscles and have fun at the same time, and more. The celebration was well attended by staff, students, friends and special guests, with lots of media coverage. I was honored to have been the one to cut the ribbon. The planner’s of the event even borrowed a wheelchair accessible golf cart to transport me to the trail. I have never seen one; that was a lot of fun. It was a beautiful nature day. What better way to promote fitness and good health. I was thrilled to be a part of it.

~ Rose ~

June 28-29 My companion Krista and I traveled to Roanoke Va. to attend the Ms Virginia Pageant. We left Charlottesville mid-morning hoping to arrive there at noon so we could have lunch with our dear friend of many years, Susan Frantz-Belisle, who had married and moved to Roanoke. It was great seeing her again. After lunch, we checked into the hotel and rested a bit before for the evening. Then it was my favorite part, dressing up. I love black tie events. I felt quite eloquent in my coral gown, jewels and crown. We arrived at the Roanoke Performing Arts Center in a 2005 Dodge Caravan mini van with my new magnetic signs donated by one of my sponsors that read, “Ms. Wheelchair Virginia.” and its logo. Inside we met up with Pam Cobler, MWVA Executive Director and friends, including Ben Helmandollar whose daughter China was in pageant. I met a lot of people and queens and saw many Charlottesvillians. It was nice watching a pageant for a change, I had been in four. All the contestants were beautiful and very talented and represented their regions well. Ms. Arlington was the winner. Our sweet China was so beautiful and fourth runner-up. She and others who were at my crowing greeted me afterwards. It was a very special evening. The next day after breakfast, we traveled fifteen miles to Faith Fellowship, Pam Cobler’s home church. We loved it, very similar to ours in Charlottesville. The minister and wife were very nice and everyone was friendly. We got a big welcome. It was as if we had been there before. After church, Pam treated us to lunch. Our dear friend and former contestant, Billie Jean Huskey from Penbrook, Va. met us in Roanoke. We had kept in touch through the years. I was thrilled to see her. We all eat at a steakhouse. The food was delicious and the fellowship was suburb. Then a nice trip home with memories that will last forever.

~ Rose ~

June 28th, 2008 Charlottesville’s Mary Williams Senior Center is a nice place to visit. I’ve been there several times to speak and conduct poetry workshops, a very convenient location, just around the block. I have discovered that this group of participants would rather listen than write, so I jumped at the opportunity when they contacted me to come and talk about my experience as Ms. Wheelchair Va. They were very excited about reading about me in the paper. They were so sweet and kind and asked many questions. I told them about the program, show them pictures and recited my platform speech. “We are proud of you Ms. Rose” they said. “It’s never too old to try new things,” I replied as I encourage them to do the same. It was a great day with friends in the neighborhood. I should have taken my teapot

~ Rose ~

July 16 Newport News, Va.I was invited by the Virginia Board for People with Disabilities to a Youth Leadership Forum Luncheon at Christopher Newport University. This is an annual event where high school students with disabilities from across the state gather to learn and explore colleges that would accommodate them best. After a presentation of colleges, the keynote speaker Richard Pimentel, a nationally renowned expert in disability management, job recruitment, ADA, and attitude change captured our hearts with his ability to combine information, humor, metaphor, analogy, and storytelling in a memorable way. Another special guest I was thrilled to meet, Ed Turner, the first recipient of the Jackie Crews Excellence in Leadership Award and since I am the third recipient, it was quite an exciting experience. The students/delegates were signed to a table with each special guest. I personally got to know three of them. One of them was from my area and plans to go to UVA. They all were inspiring and sweet. After Lunch, there was a dessert and mentoring/networking social. I loved this part of the event since I love working with young people encouraging them to set goals and dream big. I asked each one what they wanted to study in college and what careers they desired. I was really touched by their goals and I encouraged them to work hard to pursue them. On the way home I thought about how God had brought together a renowned motivational speaker, two Jackie Crews Leadership Award winners and the current Ms Wheelchair Va.-all with disabilities to be role models to a forum of happy students to prove that dreams really do come true.

~ Rose ~

July 21-27 Rockville, Maryland As Ms. Wheelchair Virginia, I had the opportunity to represent the state of Virginia in the Ms Wheelchair America Program. It was seven days of excitement, fun, and hard competition. All the contestants were absolutely wonderful and deserving of the crown. It was hard to get to know all of them intimately; though we did get to know each other through our platforms, table displays and motto’s. I’m sure everyone came away with at least several lasting friendships. I know I did. The first day, we got settled in our rooms, set up our state displays, and mingled in the hospitality room until dinner. At dinner, we participated in an ice breaker to formally introduce ourselves. The rest of the days had themes. On “Fun Day,” we dressed up in our Ms Wheelchair America tee shirts for a group photo. Then we paraded across the street for lunch and shopping, and more “Fun” activities when we returned to the hotel. As the week continued, the fun rolled on with a 50’s party with Elvis and lots of poodle shirts, a comedy night with lots of costumes, jokes and skits, and an around the world night with geography trivia and a state gift exchange. Then it was time to get serious. On speech night, we dressed up semi-formal and gave our platform speeches after dinner. Every contestant had already had three one-on-one sessions with the judges. Every platform was commendable. We all couldn’t believe how the week flew by. Then it was the day of the crowning night. Lots of rehearsing, pampering, hugs and laughter filled the air. The Gala night had arrived. When all the contestants lined up to enter the ballroom with their colorful gowns, it looked as if God had created the most awesome rainbow across the room. Beautiful ladies, inside and out. It was Ms. Texas’ big night, the new Ms Wheelchair America. She will travel the country representing us and millions of Americans with disabilities. I’m cheering for you Michelle!

~ Rose ~

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August 2008

August 16 Charlottesville, Va. The Charlottesville Parks and Recreation Annual Therapeutic Picnic is one of the events I look forward to every year. In conjunction with Independence Resource Center, this annual gathering is attended by hundreds of individuals with disabilities and friends representing many agencies that they are affiliated with. It was held at our beautiful Pen Park, one the nicest and largest. The city officials were there and many special guests including me and a lot of my colleagues. The crowd was extremely excited to see me in my sash and crown. A lot of the attendees are my poetry students from the public schools and Parks & Rec Therapeutics. It was a fun afternoon with lots of fellowship, music, singing, dancing and a baroque dinner. We took lots of pictures. The thing that always touches my heart each year is to see how much love these participants have to give away. They are so lovable and adorable. I was moved almost to tears when one of the musicians brought to me another great banjo/guitar picker who is visually impaired so he could excitedly touch/feel my crown.

~ Rose ~

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September 2008

September 3 Afton Va. Advancing Native Missions

Advancing Native Missions is one of my favorite places to visit. Many of my close friends work there. It’s an organization that sends missionary leaders to foreign countries to train native missionaries to preach the gospel. Every Wednesday, they have a luncheon and invite key leaders of the community to come and share their mission work. They invited me to come and share my mission as Ms. Wheelchair VA. My longtime missionary friend, Oliver Asher, was my chauffer for the day. I spoke to a group of about forty people. I shared with them that my mission is to educate and advocate for individuals with disabilities in order to influence attitudinal, architectural, and social change for all, especially Virginians. I explained my platform which is promoting artistic value in individuals with disabilities-my heart and my passion! It is very important to me that individuals who are “differently-abled” have an avenue to express themselves. They do this by having an opportunity to convey a message through writing poems and prose. The message is that they are talented, have goals and dreams like the average person. Below is an excerpt of one of my poetry students prose:

“When I think about my disability, I feel proud lots of times because of doing well in school and. at home… I sometimes get rejected because of my Autism… I feel valuable when people help me… I like to try new things like water skiing... My Autism doesn’t stop me from doing anything.”

Many ANM hearts were touched that day by my presentation and presence. It was a beautiful and blessed day in the Blue Ridge.

~ Rose ~

September 13 Lynchburg, Va. My companion and I traveled to Lynchburg to attend a Ms. Wheelchair VA Reunion. I always look forward to reuniting with friends made from previous galas. It’s one of my highlights of the year. The reunions are usually held every other month in various cities/towns across the state. This month, fourteen attendees, including three title-holders gathered at the Depot Grill for some good food and fellowship. I love these kinds of restaurants that have been converted from a historic landmark. The Depot Grill was once a train station with the James River running along its tracks; and as always, we enjoy learning history. Excitement filled the air as we mingled, sharing photos and updates of what everyone has been doing, and they eagerly waited to hear about how my reign is going. I told them about all the places I have been and scheduled to go. It was a wonderful afternoon. Everyone gleamed with joy with hopeful participation of the upcoming 2009 Gala weekend.

~ Rose ~

September 21 (Sunday), Ruckersville, Va. - Spring Hill Baptist Church Special Needs Celebration. Spring Hill Baptist Church is one of my favorite churches to visit. I have lots of friends there. I was the keynote speaker a few years back at their annual Special Needs Celebration Sunday and have been a special guest ever since. They have been my loyal sponsors for Ms. Wheelchair VA. Of course, they are thrilled that I am now the title holder and were excited to see me for the first time with my sash and crown. Their keynote speaker this year was Bart Womack from Jamestown NC, a twenty-three year old preacher who was born cerebral palsy. Bart has been wheelchair dependent since birth and was called to the ministry at the age of six. With his dynamic smile, wit and very supportive parents, he captures the heart of audiences across the country motivating them to dream big and serve God. And he definitely captured ours hearts. A fried chicken dinner followed. Bart was the sweetest guy to talk to. He loved my crown. He thought it was cool. I thought he was cooler. We shared many stories, triumphs and hopes. I told him I would be looking for him on TBN (Christian television) some day soon. It was fun mingling with my many friends there. It was a very inspiring Lord’s Day.

~ Rose ~

September 23 (Tuesday), Richmond, Va. - WRIC-TV 8 News at Noon Interview. WRIC TV8 was our first stop on our Richmond trip. I had never been to a TV station nor have I been on a studio set, and neither had my companion Krista. Amy Lacey, our sweet friend and former judge for Ms. Wheelchair Va. greeted us with her pretty smile. She now anchors the morning news. I was quite excited about being interviewed but was a little nervous. I was fine once I got settled. The anchor and weather desks were smaller than what I had imagined but the room was like a huge garage with all its media equipment. The weather man who first approached me was friendly and quite handsome. He was really interested in learning about Ms. Wheelchair VA Inc. and me. He interviewed me before the official “live” interview. Didn’t know it was going to be live! It was really interesting to see how they projected the weather map on a green wall from the computer while giving the weather forecast ‘live”. We didn’t see anything on the green wall but we saw the map on the TV monitor - very interesting. Then the noon anchor came and asked me what I wanted to talk about before hand, only a two minute segment. Lights. Camera, Action! We discussed the mission of Ms. Wheelchair VA and my role as the current title holder. I shared my platform and why it is important to me. I said a lot in two minutes. A photo shoot followed with the whole noon news crew. I sat behind the weather desk with the crew which was fun. I wanted to sit behind the news desk too but couldn’t because of a step up. I didn’t think about it at the time with all of the excitement, perhaps I should encourage them to make it ground level for the next promising news anchor who may be wheelchair dependent. My first stop in Richmond was great!

~ Rose ~

September 23 (Tuesday), Richmond, Va. - Lite 98 Clear Channel Radio Interview. Our second stop in Richmond was at Clear Channel Radio for another live interview with our friend Kat Simon at Lite 98. Kat was the MC for the Ms Wheelchair VA galas when they were held in Richmond. She was so excited to see me. She remembered me as a “great influence and speech writer”. And like the television station, I never had been in a radio studio. It’s a small room with big equipment. She had a nice and very handsome young apprentice working with her. After chatting to catch up on one another, she interviewed me by recording. Then I said, “That was quick, my TV interview was longer and live.” “Live”, she asked. “We can do live.” The live one was much better because I do better when it’s spontaneous. We discussed my reign thus far, my platform, my inspirations, and what I plan to achieve. Debra Willis, president and board member of Ms. Wheelchair VA, Inc made a surprise visit to the station to greet us. A very nice surprise. She’s such an encourager. We all love her. Later, Krista and I grabbed some lunch and did some shopping at an indoor mall. And yes, in my sash and crown. I was stopped by shoppers and store clerks asking, “Didn’t I just see you on the news today?” It is nice being a celeb. I am very thankful and blessed for the opportunity.

~ Rose ~

September 23 (Tuesday), Richmond, Va. - Sheltering Arms - The Power to Overcome. On our last stop in Richmond as part of National Rehabilitation Week was at Sheltering Arms. Krista and I was honored guest at a fundraiser, benefiting the Sheltering Arms Rehab Hospital’s recreation program and to celebrate the triumphs of many Sheltering Arms patients and former patients. The event was held in the grand ballroom of the Jefferson Hotel - Richmond’s finest. When I entered the ballroom, the hostesses welcomed me with the greeting, “There she is!” I was privileged to be among many distinguished guest including the Richmond’s delegates, a senator representative, the commissioner, the presidents of the Virginia Hospital and Healthcare Association and the Children’s Hospital. After a time of food and mingling, the keynote speaker Josh Sunquist, a nationally known author, accomplished athlete, and renowned public speaker entertained us by telling his powerful story in a humorous way. This young man survived cancer when at age six became an amputee. With one leg, he took up ski racing and was selected for the Paralympics ski team in the 2006 Olympics. At that moment, I wanted to yell,”You go, Josh.” I was so inspired by his story that it made me think about what I want to do next when my reign is over. Afterwards, there was a dessert and coffee reception. I was greeted by many Richmonders’ who already knew me as the 2007 recipient of the Jackie Crews Award. “Two state awards in one month!” they happily exclaimed. “That’s amazing.” I smiled. It was a grand evening!

~ Rose ~

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October 2008

October 4 (Saturday) “A Day in the Plains” My traveling companion Sandy and I headed north to the Warrington area to a little town called The Plains. It is a cute little town with lots of beautiful landscapes, friendly citizens and lots of pets, including pet goats. Its population is three hundred but the attendance that day was about seven hundred. Some of the visitors said they come every year. I was invited by “Mary’s Family” to be in the parade. I didn’t know I was the “Grand Marshall” until I got there. I was a little nervous because I had to go in my manual wheelchair. We had challenges with the van and used the car instead. I was okay after they assigned me to a really nice and strong young man who assured me that I was in good hands. Then I was presented with twelve long stem roses to carry in the parade. Now I was one handed holding on (flowers in the other) going down a hill with a man I had to fully trust (think there’s a sermon in there somewhere). After the parade, we went to where “A Day in the Plains” continued. It was set up like an expo with cotton candy, barbeque, hot dogs, live music, games for children, and lots of venders and table exhibits, including mine. I mentored two sweet teenagers who are wheelchair dependent and others from Mary’s family, a faithful community that cares about families with children who have special needs. I got pictures with two local pageant queens and some local celebs. It was a fun sunshiny day in The Plains. http://www.marysfamily.org/

~ Rose ~

October 11 (Saturday) Newport News, Va. Disabilities Awareness Day My companion Krista and I traveled to the Patrick Henry Mall in Newport News. I was invited by the Parks and Recreation Therapeutic Program to make a poetry presentation at their annual Disabilities Awareness Day. It was a big event with exhibits of many businesses catering to the needs to those who are disabled. The stage was big. I wondered how I was supposed to get up on it. They had borrowed a compact wheelchair lift from a rental company. The mall was very noisy. I was a little nervous. My involuntary muscle movements are more visible in noise, but I did okay. I shared how everyone has a story to tell and should have an avenue to tell it. Writing a poem is an easy way to convey a message or to tell a story. I read some of my poems and told them about my poetry students back home who had written about their disabilities. Then I read them some of their poems. I was honored to meet several special guests. I was inspired by the young man who M.C’ed using brail, and a wheelchair dependant gentleman who worked for the state department. After lunch and some shopping, Krista and I decided to drive to the ocean front for fresh seafood at Mai-Mai’s (my favorite). We strolled down the boardwalk, and yes, with my sash and crown. As the ocean winds picked up, we created our own parade. People were smiling and stopping to talk. Sounds of clapping hands came from the balconies. As we ate, I was continually greeted by well-wishers. A young couple even treated us to desserts of our choice. Back to the van and on our way home, I thought of how happy I am when others achieve, and now it has come full circle.

~ Rose ~

October 16 (Thursday) Americorps Annual Meeting My traveling buddy Krista and I traveled to Chester, Va. to attend the Americorps’ Annual Meeting. It was held at John Tyler Community College. John Tyler is the only president I can’t remember out of the five presidents from Virginia. Perhaps this trip will help. We gathered in the Nicholas Center Ballroom for the swearing in ceremony. I was amazed how many organizations are funded by Americorps, including Ms. Wheelchair Virginia Inc. I became a member in April when I was crowned. I mingled with other members to learn more about their projects. I was inspired by their efforts. We divided into groups-first year/second year to discuss goals for the coming year. Then gathered together again for an award presentation. We were then officially sworn in as Americorps members as we recited the Americorps’ pledge. For lunch, we traveled to a nearby restaurant to meet friends Faith and Debbie Patterson who are big participants of Ms Wheelchair Va. Inc-Faith serving as assistant coordinator. It was a very nice informative and inspirational day.

~ Rose ~

October 31 (Friday) Covenant Church Community Fall Festival Covenant Church has been my home church for many years. And the Community Fall Festival is an event I attend each year. It is one of the two annual family events, a safe alterative for trick or treat. Candy, hot dogs, carnival games, climbing wall, and apple cider were some of the fun. The children’s pastor invited to attend as Ms Wheelchair Va. Everyone was happy to see me in my crown/sash. Some passers-by said they liked my costume. I informed that it was the real deal. I laughed, hugged, and played games with the children. I mentor many of them. They were so cute in their array of costumes. They are a highlight of my life. I should have had a dozen. One of my traveling companions Mollie was the face painter and a good one at that. She painted a butterfly that covered her entire face. The kids were standing in a long line so patiently. And she painted a flower on me. To get candy, we had to play a game. I wanted candy. I played ring toss, go fish, answer the Bible verse, and sweep the ball in the box. I got candy and had fun. It made my heart glad to befriend a ten year old girl who is wheelchair dependent and a teenager with Down syndrome. What a lovely and safe evening at Covenant Church.

~ Rose ~

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October 2008

October 4 (Saturday) “A Day in the Plains” My traveling companion Sandy and I headed north to the Warrington area to a little town called The Plains. It is a cute little town with lots of beautiful landscapes, friendly citizens and lots of pets, including pet goats. Its population is three hundred but the attendance that day was about seven hundred. Some of the visitors said they come every year. I was invited by “Mary’s Family” to be in the parade. I didn’t know I was the “Grand Marshall” until I got there. I was a little nervous because I had to go in my manual wheelchair. We had challenges with the van and used the car instead. I was okay after they assigned me to a really nice and strong young man who assured me that I was in good hands. Then I was presented with twelve long stem roses to carry in the parade. Now I was one handed holding on (flowers in the other) going down a hill with a man I had to fully trust (think there’s a sermon in there somewhere). After the parade, we went to where “A Day in the Plains” continued. It was set up like an expo with cotton candy, barbeque, hot dogs, live music, games for children, and lots of venders and table exhibits, including mine. I mentored two sweet teenagers who are wheelchair dependent and others from Mary’s family, a faithful community that cares about families with children who have special needs. I got pictures with two local pageant queens and some local celebs. It was a fun sunshiny day in The Plains. http://www.marysfamily.org/

~ Rose ~

October 11 (Saturday) Newport News, Va. Disabilities Awareness Day My companion Krista and I traveled to the Patrick Henry Mall in Newport News. I was invited by the Parks and Recreation Therapeutic Program to make a poetry presentation at their annual Disabilities Awareness Day. It was a big event with exhibits of many businesses catering to the needs to those who are disabled. The stage was big. I wondered how I was supposed to get up on it. They had borrowed a compact wheelchair lift from a rental company. The mall was very noisy. I was a little nervous. My involuntary muscle movements are more visible in noise, but I did okay. I shared how everyone has a story to tell and should have an avenue to tell it. Writing a poem is an easy way to convey a message or to tell a story. I read some of my poems and told them about my poetry students back home who had written about their disabilities. Then I read them some of their poems. I was honored to meet several special guests. I was inspired by the young man who M.C’ed using brail, and a wheelchair dependant gentleman who worked for the state department. After lunch and some shopping, Krista and I decided to drive to the ocean front for fresh seafood at Mai-Mai’s (my favorite). We strolled down the boardwalk, and yes, with my sash and crown. As the ocean winds picked up, we created our own parade. People were smiling and stopping to talk. Sounds of clapping hands came from the balconies. As we ate, I was continually greeted by well-wishers. A young couple even treated us to desserts of our choice. Back to the van and on our way home, I thought of how happy I am when others achieve, and now it has come full circle.

~ Rose ~

October 16 (Thursday) Americorps Annual Meeting My traveling buddy Krista and I traveled to Chester, Va. to attend the Americorps’ Annual Meeting. It was held at John Tyler Community College. John Tyler is the only president I can’t remember out of the five presidents from Virginia. Perhaps this trip will help. We gathered in the Nicholas Center Ballroom for the swearing in ceremony. I was amazed how many organizations are funded by Americorps, including Ms. Wheelchair Virginia Inc. I became a member in April when I was crowned. I mingled with other members to learn more about their projects. I was inspired by their efforts. We divided into groups-first year/second year to discuss goals for the coming year. Then gathered together again for an award presentation. We were then officially sworn in as Americorps members as we recited the Americorps’ pledge. For lunch, we traveled to a nearby restaurant to meet friends Faith and Debbie Patterson who are big participants of Ms Wheelchair Va. Inc-Faith serving as assistant coordinator. It was a very nice informative and inspirational day.

~ Rose ~

October 31 (Friday) Covenant Church Community Fall Festival Covenant Church has been my home church for many years. And the Community Fall Festival is an event I attend each year. It is one of the two annual family events, a safe alterative for trick or treat. Candy, hot dogs, carnival games, climbing wall, and apple cider were some of the fun. The children’s pastor invited to attend as Ms Wheelchair Va. Everyone was happy to see me in my crown/sash. Some passers-by said they liked my costume. I informed that it was the real deal. I laughed, hugged, and played games with the children. I mentor many of them. They were so cute in their array of costumes. They are a highlight of my life. I should have had a dozen. One of my traveling companions Mollie was the face painter and a good one at that. She painted a butterfly that covered her entire face. The kids were standing in a long line so patiently. And she painted a flower on me. To get candy, we had to play a game. I wanted candy. I played ring toss, go fish, answer the Bible verse, and sweep the ball in the box. I got candy and had fun. It made my heart glad to befriend a ten year old girl who is wheelchair dependent and a teenager with Down syndrome. What a lovely and safe evening at Covenant Church.

~ Rose ~

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October 2008

October 4 (Saturday) “A Day in the Plains” My traveling companion Sandy and I headed north to the Warrington area to a little town called The Plains. It is a cute little town with lots of beautiful landscapes, friendly citizens and lots of pets, including pet goats. Its population is three hundred but the attendance that day was about seven hundred. Some of the visitors said they come every year. I was invited by “Mary’s Family” to be in the parade. I didn’t know I was the “Grand Marshall” until I got there. I was a little nervous because I had to go in my manual wheelchair. We had challenges with the van and used the car instead. I was okay after they assigned me to a really nice and strong young man who assured me that I was in good hands. Then I was presented with twelve long stem roses to carry in the parade. Now I was one handed holding on (flowers in the other) going down a hill with a man I had to fully trust (think there’s a sermon in there somewhere). After the parade, we went to where “A Day in the Plains” continued. It was set up like an expo with cotton candy, barbeque, hot dogs, live music, games for children, and lots of venders and table exhibits, including mine. I mentored two sweet teenagers who are wheelchair dependent and others from Mary’s family, a faithful community that cares about families with children who have special needs. I got pictures with two local pageant queens and some local celebs. It was a fun sunshiny day in The Plains. http://www.marysfamily.org/

~ Rose ~

October 11 (Saturday) Newport News, Va. Disabilities Awareness Day My companion Krista and I traveled to the Patrick Henry Mall in Newport News. I was invited by the Parks and Recreation Therapeutic Program to make a poetry presentation at their annual Disabilities Awareness Day. It was a big event with exhibits of many businesses catering to the needs to those who are disabled. The stage was big. I wondered how I was supposed to get up on it. They had borrowed a compact wheelchair lift from a rental company. The mall was very noisy. I was a little nervous. My involuntary muscle movements are more visible in noise, but I did okay. I shared how everyone has a story to tell and should have an avenue to tell it. Writing a poem is an easy way to convey a message or to tell a story. I read some of my poems and told them about my poetry students back home who had written about their disabilities. Then I read them some of their poems. I was honored to meet several special guests. I was inspired by the young man who M.C’ed using brail, and a wheelchair dependant gentleman who worked for the state department. After lunch and some shopping, Krista and I decided to drive to the ocean front for fresh seafood at Mai-Mai’s (my favorite). We strolled down the boardwalk, and yes, with my sash and crown. As the ocean winds picked up, we created our own parade. People were smiling and stopping to talk. Sounds of clapping hands came from the balconies. As we ate, I was continually greeted by well-wishers. A young couple even treated us to desserts of our choice. Back to the van and on our way home, I thought of how happy I am when others achieve, and now it has come full circle.

~ Rose ~

October 16 (Thursday) Americorps Annual Meeting My traveling buddy Krista and I traveled to Chester, Va. to attend the Americorps’ Annual Meeting. It was held at John Tyler Community College. John Tyler is the only president I can’t remember out of the five presidents from Virginia. Perhaps this trip will help. We gathered in the Nicholas Center Ballroom for the swearing in ceremony. I was amazed how many organizations are funded by Americorps, including Ms. Wheelchair Virginia Inc. I became a member in April when I was crowned. I mingled with other members to learn more about their projects. I was inspired by their efforts. We divided into groups-first year/second year to discuss goals for the coming year. Then gathered together again for an award presentation. We were then officially sworn in as Americorps members as we recited the Americorps’ pledge. For lunch, we traveled to a nearby restaurant to meet friends Faith and Debbie Patterson who are big participants of Ms Wheelchair Va. Inc-Faith serving as assistant coordinator. It was a very nice informative and inspirational day.

~ Rose ~

October 31 (Friday) Covenant Church Community Fall Festival Covenant Church has been my home church for many years. And the Community Fall Festival is an event I attend each year. It is one of the two annual family events, a safe alterative for trick or treat. Candy, hot dogs, carnival games, climbing wall, and apple cider were some of the fun. The children’s pastor invited to attend as Ms Wheelchair Va. Everyone was happy to see me in my crown/sash. Some passers-by said they liked my costume. I informed that it was the real deal. I laughed, hugged, and played games with the children. I mentor many of them. They were so cute in their array of costumes. They are a highlight of my life. I should have had a dozen. One of my traveling companions Mollie was the face painter and a good one at that. She painted a butterfly that covered her entire face. The kids were standing in a long line so patiently. And she painted a flower on me. To get candy, we had to play a game. I wanted candy. I played ring toss, go fish, answer the Bible verse, and sweep the ball in the box. I got candy and had fun. It made my heart glad to befriend a ten year old girl who is wheelchair dependent and a teenager with Down syndrome. What a lovely and safe evening at Covenant Church.

~ Rose ~

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November 2008

November 9 (Sunday) Charlottesville Va. Covenant Church Children’s Program (My Home Church) How exciting it was to make an appearance as Ms. Wheelchair Va. at Covenant Church Children’s Program. All of the children are dear to my heart. They run up to me all the time with lots of hugs, kisses and sweet things to share. I love it. I should have had a dozen. I spoke to two groups of children from the early and the late morning services. I first talked about my disability, kids are always curious. Then I shared how God had planned for me to be Ms. Wheelchair Va. so I could travel all over the state as spokesperson for individuals with disabilities. The children were raising their hands eagerly waiting to ask lots of questions-my favorite part. Some asked, What do you speak about?” “Who do you live with?” Are you married?” “Do you have children? “Who drives you?” “How do you get in and out of your wheelchair?” I had to do a transfer demonstration for them. I had fun answering their questions. My favorite question of all was, “Are they real diamonds in your crown” “You know honey,” I answered, “I have never asked anyone that question because I don’t want to be disappointed. So let’s dream that they are, okay?” “Okay,” she said. I went home that day refreshed and clean from the innocence of children.

~ Rose ~

November 18 (Tuesday) Charlottesville, Va. The Colonnades Senior Living

I rode the para-transit, like I do all my local engagements, to the Colonnades Senior Living. The Colonnades is one of Charlottesville’s nicest senior complexes, catering to any need. I was invited to speak at an afternoon tea party for the residents in the assisted living wing. And you know how much I like tea parties. I had heads turning as I entered the main entrance. Welcome “Your Highness,” some said as they bowed. I smiled. My hostess met me. It was a small group, including a retired teacher, an actress, and a prominent businessman. I shared my travels as Ms. Wheelchair Va. and why I chose to pursue it. Like children, they were more interested in learning more about my disability and personal life, although my life is an opened book. I was inspired by them as they too shared their accomplishments. We talked and talked. It was such a delightful afternoon. And the refreshments were great.

~ Rose ~

November 12-14 Hampton, Va. (Wednesday-Friday) Va. Governor Housing Conference I had the opportunity to attend the Virginia Governor Housing Conference by applying for and was granted a scholarship by writing an essay. I wanted to learn more about affordable and accessible housing and universal design. These are issues that are frequently asked about at many of my engagements. My companion and I stayed at the Embassy Suites, adjacent the convention center. Nice! Very nice! There were workshop electives during the day, which included lunch, and networking receptions at night with live music and heavy hor’deuvres cooked fresh on every aisle. I enjoyed mingling and making news friends and running unto friends I already knew. We even ran unto our Mayor, the mayor of Charlottesville. He wasn’t surprised that I was there. He was introducing me to his fellow colleagues as a true Charlottesvillian. Many of the networking displays were very informative such as the Fair Housing Act and Virginia Housing Development Authority. I bought back home some valuable and some disquieting information. We also attended an awards banquet where Governor Caine made a presentation via satellite. I would have to say that the highlight of my three-day trip among eight hundred attendees was meeting the keynote speaker Tiki Barber, a hug, autograph and photo included. He got my photo and autograph too. He had already won my heart in Charlottesville as a Virginia Caviler football favorite and now a football legend/housing advocate. Now it was up and personal, thanks to my companion who placed a note from me on his lectern. Well, that’s another journal entry!

~ Rose ~

November 25 Lexington, Va. (Thursday) Rockbridge Advocates for Community Involvement My companion Mollie and I traveled to Lexington to a Rockbridge Advocates for Community Involvement luncheon. Joan Manley, friend and former contestant of Ms. Wheelchair Va. invited us. I was the keynote speaker. RACI’s mission is to increase accessibility of recreation programs and services and to create more accessible sidewalks and more accessible and affordable transportation. They meet regularly, participating in local programs and activities reinforcing the need for accessible services and sending an awareness message to planners and organizers that ALL individuals want and can be involved. I love Joan. She can get things moving. She is definitely a mover a shaker. She sent me a long list of topics they would be interested in learning about my world: accessible recreation, VSA arts, par-transit-availability-costs, quality of life-challenges, support services, support network (friends, aides, family), hobbies, poetry, Ms Wheelchair Virginia Pageant and the national competition. I joyously covered all the above and felt good about my presentation. The group was warm and friendly. I felt right at home. I love to meet new friends that make me feel like I have been knowing them for years. The following is an excerpt from Joan’s note of appreciation: “Your visit and presentation provided an inspirational message to all present that individuals with disabilities can be active participants in community life. Your efforts and accomplishments remind us that a positive attitude and determination (and a good sense of humor) can lead to personal and public success.

~ Rose ~

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January 2009

January 3rd (Saturday) Charlottesville Parks Rec Therapeutic New Year's Dance What better way to start the new year but with my special friends down at the Rec. They love it when I come to their dances and dance with them (check out the pics). D. J. Andy always seems to know all my favorite songs. What’s so precious about these events is that these participants are so contented in the smallest of things. I once went on a weekend trip with them to Virginia Beach . My heart so was touched as I watched them. I came home with a new perspective on life and wrote following poem:

 

A World I Never Knew

By Rose Williams

 

I walked into another world one day  
A world I never knew, not some fantasy land  
Like Treasure Island or Oz  
But a real place  
Where innocence and laughter live  

 

A world of love and affection
Melting the coldest of hearts

 

Big happy faces
Contented in the smallest of things
Like the touch of an ocean wave
Sitting on a park bench watching people go by
And a Big Mac, coke and fries

 

I walked into another world one day
A world I never knew, with lots of simple pleasures
A song and dance, giggles and hugs
And ice cream that’s dripping

 

Where medicine is commonplace
Still and quiet. Then with excitement
A movie, pizza and a swim in the pool

 

I walked into another world one day
A world I never knew, unlike my world
Of busyness and change
But a place where the busiest of mind can rest

 

Now, I often visit this world, the world I never knew
To keep my perspective
On life and the simplest of things

 

A wonderful world
Where innocence and laughter live
And it has made a difference

~ Rose ~

January 18 (Sunday) Charlottesville Martin Luther King Jr. Celebration The assistant coordinator of MWVA Faith Patterson and her mom met me at the Martin Luther King Jr. Performing Arts Center to celebrate his life and legacy, one of my heroes. Growing up in the sixties, I was so inspired by his quest for human rights. As a teenager, I felt the plight of the black community because I too was made fun of and pushed aside. This annual celebration included a mass community choir singing Negro spirituals, several keynote speakers and an award presentation. Rev. Williams Johnson is among a long list of recipients of the local NAACP award. What made this celebration so special is that thirty years later, Dr. King’s dream comes true as we swear in a the first African American president. Yes, excitement was in the air. The excitement carried over to the next morning when I learned that Faith’s and my picture landed on the front page of the local newspaper in front of a giant wall picture of Dr. King.

~ Rose ~

January 23 (Friday) Charlottesville Senior Center Writing for Pleasure Class Ms. Bettie, the facilitator of the Writing for Pleasure class called me with excitement and invited me to come speak to the seniors about my adventures as a writer and motivational speaker and my journeys as Ms. Wheelchair Va. They all had heard of me from various sources. Ms. Bettie told me to prepare for about twenty people although they have about forty plus registered. Good thing that I brought extra hand outs. The room got smaller as they added more tables and chairs for many writers and writers want-to-be’s. One man looked at me and said, “You must be popular, we haven’t this big of a crowd for long time.” First I spoke about how I had chosen to pursue the Ms. Wheelchair Va. title to promote the arts on a broader scale, especially promoting the arts in individuals with disabilities. Then I gave them a kindergarten version of all the tools and techniques I had learned in the many writing classes I had taken, with hand-outs to take home. Afterwards, we had a reading. I read my poem, “Overdue Tip,” which is everyone’s all time favorite (you can read it at the end of my essay, “Waiter, There’s a Bad Attitude in my Soup.” in the article’s link.) After they read some of their works, I lead them in writing a couple of poems. It was a fun afternoon. I didn’t get any pictures of this event. The man who I asked to take pictures must had got too excited and laid my camera down on the table in movie mode and all I got is the wall and voices.

~ Rose ~

January 24 (Saturday) Charlottesville Dogwood Pageant I received a call from our local Dogwood Pageant wanting to know if I would be interested in being a judge in the Charlottesville Dogwood Ms. Teen & Ms. Preteen Pageant. Our friend Mildred Spicer had printed my MWVA picture and info in the Charlottesville Parks and Rec brochure. I gladly accepted. What a great opportunity. I was a little nervous at first but calmed down once I received a big welcome. I was Judge One among a distinguished panel-a former queen now in her seventies, a talk show host, an ex-football coach turn lead singer, and a former judge for over 200 Ms. America preliminaries. It was an all day event. The contestants were great. I was asked primarily judge on public speaking. We judged photos, fashion, speeches, pose, etc. There were three sisters competing against each other. I thought of my sisters. I don’t think so. After the winners were announced, there was a photo shoot. I had my picture taken with the winners and all the visiting queens. I had awesome time. Hope to do more of that

~ Rose ~

February 2009

February 13 (Friday) Richmond Capital Governor Tim Kaine Our trip to Richmond to meet with Governor Kaine was very inspiring. He was very friendly and easy to talk to. We talked about my platform, the arts and about the vibrate art program we have in Charlottesville to promote artistic value in individuals with disabilities. I presented him with our current VSA Arts annual poetry book project and calendar featuring works of local artists with disabilities. I told him that I am thankful for the opportunity as Ms. Wheelchair Va. to promote the arts throughout the state and share the accomplishments of a unique population.  MWVA board member Dr. Fuller was a wonderful host. We had lunch after touring the new capital and learning much more about our historic state. He is brilliant. In the afternoon I had an appointment with Speaker of the House Bob, who was also very nice and interested in the therapeutic arts. I also presented him with a calendar and poetry. Before we left Richmond we went by to say hi to MWVA president Debra Willis and friends I had met from previous pageants very nice visit. We also visited my companion Krista's mom. Krista is from Richmond and kept running into old friends. We were invited one of Krista's friends to come by the Red Cross so they too could meet MWVA.   Back home in Charlottesville -a Tip-Top Diner dinner, in my crown and all. It was a very good day with memories that will last forever!

~ Rose ~

February 28 (Saturday) Charlottesville Ms Wheelchair Va. Reunion

~ Rose ~

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Fishersville, VA 22939-1500
800-345-WWRC (Ext. 7905)  or  540-332-7905

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