April 11-13  Fishersville, Va.  MWVA Gala Weekend

Oh what grand weekend! I was very blessed to be among a group of wonderful women with extraordinary spirits and talents, who share a common bond. One of my favorite parts of program was when we all first met. I really enjoyed mingling as we set up our table display. I have made lasting friendships in such a short time. Everything about the program was suburb: practical workshops, the food, fellowship, and the buddy system. I wanted to pack up my buddy and bring her home. I especially liked the pampering/dressing up session and the Happy Dayz Diner.

The Gala was awesome, very well planned. All the ladies were absolutely beautiful. And their platforms are commendable.  I just had a good feeling. It was my forth time as a contestant and second time as a finalist. I had watched myself progressed over time.  This time, I was very content. I was totally satisfied with my dress, motto, and speech. I also had a matching back drop and many fans.  I was extremely happy when they called my name as the next Ms. Wheelchair Va and was amazed how God had opened another door for me to shine into many more lives across this great state. I would like to thank the Board of Directors, the coordinators, volunteers, WWRC staff, and my sponsors who made possible one of the best achievements of my life.

April 22 Charlottesville,Va. Evening Out Program 

My first engagement was in Charlottesville, Va.  I spoke to the members of the Evening Out Program, a monthly activity sponsored by Charlottesville Parks & Recreation, for those who have physical challenges.  I am a regular member of this group, so you know that they were very excited that I am now Ms. Wheelchair Va.  I shared my role and platform as the title holder.  I also shared with them how I chose to be a part of the Ms. Wheelchair Va. Org. as an avenue to promote disability awareness, home and abroad.  I encouraged them to find their avenue to do the same.  They were very eager to hear, and they asked many questions.  It was a very nice first engagement!

April 23, Charlottesville,Va. Autism Awareness Month

As part of Autism Awareness Month, the Charlottesville NBC29 news asked to do a story on me as Ms. Wheelchair Va. and my poetry students who have autism at Albemarle High School.  The students were quite excited, seeing Ms. Rose for the first time in her sash and crown and the TV camera and microphone.  I conducted a short version of one of my workshops, where I scatter little pieces of paper on the table with words of every emotion written them.  Then the students pick out the emotions they are feeling that day, and begin to write a poem about it.  This writing exercise is always successful as I tell them to take the emotions out of their mind/heart and put it on paper.  The TV crew was very touched.

May 16, Charlottesville, Va. Spring Visually Impaired Picnic

I was invited by Charlottesville Parks & Recreation to make an appearance and presentation at the Spring Visually Impaired Picnic. This is a fairly small but fun group.  There was lots of fried chicken, music and laughter. They were very eager to hear about m5y roll as Ms. Wheelchair Va. as I shared my platform, open doors for individuals with disabilities to express though art and poetry and for them to have complete access to any public place. The participants really liked my motto, “Find Your Passion and Make It Happen” because they said they know I have done this, and it really fits my personality. I shared with them a beloved quote by one of my fellow artists, Many doors have closed since I became disabled (in my case, wheelchair dependent) but many new doors have opened, and the new doors are better than the old ones.  I have found this is true, new doors, new friends, new opportunities, an abundant life.

April 19-May 24 Charlottesville, Va  Passport to Downtown

Our “Passport to Downtown “class was a big success. This was a Charlottesville Parks & Rec Therapeutic class I had committed to co-lead prior to becoming Ms. Wheelchair Va. This was a fun Saturday morning class series where Mary Miller and I led a detailed tour of our ever popular historic downtown and pedestrian mall where hundreds of people visit weekly, lots of restaurants with out side patio dining, shops, concert venues, and many other attractions. Our class participants, who have cognitive and/or physical disabilities and live in group homes; and some live with their parents, always look forward to activities offered. It was a great experience for them and for us. We discovered shops I didn’t even know existed. Mary made everyone a mock passport with their name and picture on it, and at every stop, the retailer/owner (who knew we were coming) stamped it with their logo.  Each week, we had designated places to go. During the five week class, we explored the new Charlottesville Transit Station and Visitor Center, the Virginia Discovery Museum, Studio Bamboo, Lee Hallmark Shop, Innisfree boutique, Five Guys, Dog and Horse Lover’s Boutique, Oyster House Antiques, Freedom of Expression chalk wall, Chaps Ice Cream, the Needle Lady, Alakazam Toys & Gifts, CVS, York Place mini mall, the ice skate park, the library, the farmer’s market, the Festival of Cultures. And my favorite, Caspsari card shop, but it’s not the normal card shop; with lots of china, tea pots, seasonal furniture and accessories. I felt like I had stepped right into a Better Homes & Garden magazine. The participants all had their own favorites too. A lot of them were tired from walking each week but really enjoyed the class. What touched my heart each time is to see these young people be so contented of the littlest of things.

May 29 Charlottesville, Va. Post High Graduation Celebration

The Albemarle Post High Special Needs Program located in Charlottesville is another favorite place to visit. That’s because many of the students are in my poetry workshops year round. I always get a warm welcome. They were extra excited as they welcomed their friend Ms. Wheelchair Va for the first time. It was their graduation celebration to transition five students from vocational training to employment. I am so proud of their accomplishments. They always make me feel like a proud parent. My photo shoot at the event with students, staff, school board members, principal, alumni, and family members was quite lengthy but exciting (I love my new “red” digital camera.). I felt like a celebrity, some say I am. Throughout the year, the students also participant in art, music, drama and poetry through VSA Arts, in which I am a member and poetry workshop facilitator. All the Post High students bring so much love into my life as we celebrate each other’s accomplishments.

June 3 Charlottesville, Va.  Mary Williams Senior Center

Mary Williams Senior Center is a nice place to visit. I’ve been there several times to speak and conduct poetry workshops, a very convenient location, just around the block. I have discovered that this group of participants would rather listen than write, so I jumped at the opportunity when they contacted me to come and talk about my experience as Ms. Wheelchair Va. They were very excited about reading about me in the paper. They were so sweet and kind and asked many questions. I told them about the program, show them pictures and recited my platform speech. “We are proud of you Ms. Rose” they said. “It’s never too old to try new things,” I replied as I encourage them to do the same. It was a great day with friends in the neighborhood. I should have taken my teapot!

June 14  Keysville, Va.  Ms. Wheelchair Va Reunion

A fun day in the sun in Keysville, Va. Angie Wilkerson Ms. Wheelchair Va. 2005-06 and her husband James hosted a pool party at their lovely home for all contestants and companions, coordinators, board members, volunteers. Four titleholders, family and friends were there, including Ms. Pam Cobler, MWVA Executive Director. Sweet Faith, our Assistant Coordinator was also present. .James was our chef. He grilled hamburgers and hot dogs to go along with delicious sides that were provided. Then it was time for a swim. The pool was four and a half feet deep and accessible. Nice temperature too thanks to the sun. After we ate, one by one, we began our swim. My sweet friend and companion/chauffer Krista assisted me. I suddenly had a flashback to when I did water aerobics with Big Bob, my former recreation swim coach. I told Krista she would make a good one too. I was eager to get out of the pool because our friend, Ben Helmandollar had promised me a ride on his three-wheeler motor bike. Yes, that’s right. I had ridden a Harley two-wheeler when I was still walking with my renegade friend Ken Bare. Ben picked me up and sat me in the passenger seat. Helmet first. He commented that the helmet looked better than the crown. I doubt that oh. We cut through the yard several times and down the road to the stop sign and then he kicked it up some more. I had a blast. I learned that day that I still have a little renegade in me.  It was definitely a fun day in the sun!

June 24  Fishersville, Va.  S.T.A.R. Ribbon Cutting Celebration

I was invited to a ribbon cutting celebration for the grand opening of the S.T.A.R. accessible trail (Supporting Therapeutic Access to Recreation) at Woodrow Wilson Rehabilitation Center in Fishersville, Va. the home of Ms. Wheelchair Va. Inc. I got a big welcome even before I could get out of the van. Everyone was so glad to see me again. They hadn’t seen me since the crowning event.

The half mile crushed stone trail is an absolute beauty, with lots of shrubs, trees and park benches surrounding a lake with fishing piers, a picnic area, a across-over bridge to an island, fitness stations designed to work and build muscles and have fun at the same time, and more. The celebration was well attended by staff, students, friends and special guests, with lots of media coverage. I was honored to have been the one to cut the ribbon. The planner’s of the event even borrowed a wheelchair accessible golf cart to transport me to the trail. I have never seen one; that was a lot of fun. It was a beautiful nature day. What better way to promote fitness and good health. I was thrilled to be a part of it.

June 28-29 Roanoke, VA  Ms Virginia Pageant

My companion Krista and I traveled to Roanoke Va. to attend the Ms Virginia Pageant. We left mid-morning hoping to arrive there at noon so we could have lunch with our dear friend of many years, Susan Frantz-Belilses, who had married and moved to Roanoke.  It was great seeing her again. After lunch, we checked into the hotel and rested a bit before for the evening. Then it was my favorite part, dressing up. I love black tie events. I felt quite eloquent in my coral gown, jewels and crown. We arrived at the Roanoke Performing Arts Center in a 2005 Dodge Caravan mini van with my new magnetic signs donated by one of my sponsors that read, “Ms. Wheelchair Virginia.” and it’s logo. Inside we met up with Pam Cobler, MWVA Executive Director and friends, including Ben Helmandollar whose daughter China was in pageant. I met a lot of people and queens and saw many Charlottesvillians. It was nice watching a pageant for a change, I had been in four. All the contestants were beautiful and very talented and represented their regions well. Ms. Arlington was the winner. Our sweet Chinah was so beautiful and fourth runner-up. She and others who were at my crowing greeted me afterwards. It was a very special evening.

The next day after breakfast, we traveled fifteen miles to Faith Fellowship, Pam Cobler’s home church. We loved it, very similar to ours in Charlottesville. The minister and wife were very nice and everyone was friendly. We got a big welcome. It was as if we had been there before. After church, Pam treated us to lunch. Our dear friend and former contestant, Billie Jean Huskey from Penbrook, Va. met us in Roanoke. We had kept in touch through the years. I was thrilled to see her. We all eat at a steakhouse. The food was delicious and the fellowship was suburb.  Then a nice trip home with memories that will last forever.

July 16  Newport News, Va. Youth Leadership Forum

I was invited by the Virginia Board for People with Disabilities to a Youth Leadership Forum Luncheon at Christopher Newport University. This is an annual event where high school students with disabilities from across the state gather to learn and explore colleges that would accommodate them best. After a presentation of colleges, the keynote speaker Richard Pimentel, a nationally renowned expert in disability management, job recruitment, ADA, and attitude change captured our hearts with his ability to combine information, humor, metaphor, analogy, and storytelling in a memorable way. Another special guest I was thrilled to meet, Ed Turner, the first recipient of the Jackie Crews Excellence in Leadership Award and since I am the third recipient, it was quite an exciting experience.

The students/delegates were signed to a table with each special guest. I personally got to know three of them. One of them was from my area and plans to go to UVA. They all were inspiring and sweet. After Lunch, there was a dessert and mentoring/networking social. I loved this part of the event since I love working with young people encouraging them to set goals and dream big. I asked each one what they wanted to study in college and what careers they desired. I was really touched by their goals and I encouraged them to work hard to pursue them. On the way home I thought about how God had brought together a renowned motivational speaker, two Jackie Crews Leadership Award winners and the current Ms Wheelchair Va.-all with disabilities to be role models to a forum of happy students to prove that dreams really do come true.

July 21-27  Rockville, Maryland  Ms Wheelchair America

As Ms. Wheelchair Virginia, I had the opportunity to represent Virginia in the Ms Wheelchair America Program. Twenty-six titleholders from all over the U.S. came together for a week of excitement, fun and hard competition. All of them were absolutely amazing and beautiful as they shared their stories of courage and hope. When my companion and I arrived at the Hilton in .Rockville Md., I thought, “How are they going to accommodate twenty-six wheelchair users in the same week?” When I rolled in and saw how magnificent the hotel was and when our sweet MWA volunteer Chris greeted us at the door, I knew we were going to be just fine. After getting settled in, we gathered in the designated area for the program week. As the contestants were still arriving, we continued to set up our state displays, which were very educational. We mingled and introduced ourselves even before the official introduction at dinner. There was lots of laughter and excitement. Each day we gathered in the ballroom for lunch and dinner and a theme. I love special times with new friends. Breakfast was special too, not as formal but more intimate. I got acquainted with a lot of contestants, volunteers, companions, coordinators and guests. Ms. Kansas’ grandmother/companion became a grandmother to all. We loved Ms. Hazel!

The theme for each day was commendable, very well planned. The first day we arrived was Bon-Voyage. This theme went into the next day which was Fun Day. We docked the ship and went on a tour and paraded across the street to a shopping mall for seafood and browsing. In the afternoon, we participated in activities to help us get more acquainted, such as creating a skit with props provided, and quilt making. As the week progressed, the themes continued. The theme “Around the World” with a state gift exchange and geography trivia was fun. I like trivia. The night of comedy was the majority’s favorite. We dressed as our favorite comedian and told jokes and did skits. I was told the next morning that I was quite funny. My favorite theme was the fifties party. I grew up in that era. We dressed up in our poodle skirts and pom-poms and danced the night away with Elvis, the oldies and root beer floats. We even had our own dance coach. I loved the hand-jive; I thought of the movie Grease. I afterwards did the jive in my sleep I’m sure.

Speech night was awesome. We dressed up in our semi-formal attire, and after dinner approached the stage to give our platform speeches, alphabetically in reverse. All the ladies’ speeches were passionately presented and commendable. I was second to give my two minute platform speech. My platform is art opportunities to promote artistic value in individuals with disabilities and accessibility and safety in public places. I have always been an advocate of inclusion, inspired by my father who fought for my rights as a little girl with cerebral palsy, and my educators and mentors who believed in me as becoming a spokesperson. Another D.J. dance party followed the speeches. There was lots of picture taking and fellowship. Just clean fun. It was a grand evening.

August 16  Charlottesville, Va. Annual Therapeutic Picnic

The Charlottesville Parks and Recreation Annual Therapeutic Picnic is one of the events I look forward to every year. In conjunction with Independence Resource Center, this annual gathering is attended by hundreds of individuals with disabilities and friends representing many agencies that they are affiliated with. It was held at our beautiful Pen Park, one the nicest and largest. The city officials were there and many special guests including me and a lot of my colleagues. The crowd was extremely excited to see me in my sash and crown. A lot of the attendees are my poetry students from the public schools and Parks & Rec Therapeutics. It was a fun afternoon with lots of fellowship, music, singing, dancing and a baroque dinner. We took lots of pictures. The thing that always touches my heart each year is to see how much love these participants have to give away. They are so lovable and adorable. I was moved almost to tears when one of the musicians brought to me another great banjo/guitar picker who is visually impaired so he could excitedly touch/feel my crown.

September 3   Afton Va. - Advancing Native Missions

Advancing Native Missions is one of my favorite places to visit. Many of my close friends work there. It’s an organization that sends missionary leaders to foreign countries to train native missionaries to preach the gospel. Every Wednesday, they have a luncheon and invite key leaders of the community to come and share their mission work. They invited me to come and share my mission as Ms. Wheelchair VA.  My longtime missionary friend, Oliver Asher, was my chauffer for the day. I spoke to a group of about forty people. I shared with them that my mission is to educate and advocate for individuals with disabilities in order to influence attitudinal, architectural, and social change for all, especially Virginians.  I explained my platform which is promoting artistic value in individuals with disabilities-my heart and my passion! It is very important to me that individuals who are “differently-abled” have an avenue to express themselves. They do this by having an opportunity to convey a message through writing poems and prose. The message is that they are talented, have goals and dreams like the average person. Below is an excerpt of one of my poetry students prose:

“When I think about my disability, I feel proud lots of times because of doing well in school and. at home… I sometimes get rejected because of my Autism… I feel valuable when people help me… I like to try new things like water skiing...  My Autism doesn’t stop me from doing anything.”

Many ANM hearts were touched that day by my presentation and presence. It was a beautiful and blessed day on the Blue Ridge.

September 13, Lynchburg Va. - MWVA Reunion

My companion and I traveled to Lynchburg to attend a Ms. Wheelchair VA Reunion. I always look forward to reuniting with friends made from previous galas. It’s one of my highlights of the year. The reunions are usually held every other month in various cities/towns across the state. This month, fourteen attendees, including three title-holders gathered at the Depot Grill for some good food and fellowship. I love these kinds of restaurants that have been converted from a historic landmark. The Depot Grill was once a train station with the James River running along its tracks; and as always, we enjoy learning history. Excitement filled the air as we mingled, sharing photos and updates of what everyone has been doing, and they eagerly waited to hear about how my reign is going. I told them about all the places I have been and scheduled to go. It was a wonderful afternoon. Everyone gleamed with joy with hopeful participation of the upcoming 2009 Gala weekend.

September 21 Ruckersville, Va. - Spring Hill Baptist Church

Spring Hill Baptist Church is one of my favorite churches to visit. I have lots of friends there. I was the keynote speaker a few years back at their annual Special Needs Celebration Sunday and have been a special guest ever since. They have been my loyal sponsors for Ms. Wheelchair VA.  Of course, they are thrilled that I am now the title holder and were excited to see me for the first time with my sash and crown. Their keynote speaker this year was Bart Womack from Jamestown NC, a twenty-three year old preacher who was born cerebral palsy. Bart has been wheelchair dependent since birth and was called to the ministry at the age of six. With his dynamic smile, wit and very supportive parents, he captures the heart of audiences across the country motivating them to dream big and serve God. And he definitely captured ours hearts. A fried chicken dinner followed. Bart was the sweetest guy to talk to. He loved my crown. He thought it was cool. I thought he was cooler. We shared many stories, triumphs and hopes. I told him I would be looking for him on TBN (Christian television) someday soon. It was fun mingling with my many friends there. It was a very inspiring Lord’s Day.

September 23, Richmond, Va. - WRIC-TV 8 News at Noon Interview

WRIC TV8 was our first stop on our Richmond trip. I had never been to a TV station nor have I been on a studio set, and neither had my companion Krista. Amy Lacey, our sweet friend and former judge for Ms. Wheelchair Va. greeted us with her pretty smile. She now anchors the morning news. I was quite excited about being interviewed but was a little nervous. I was fine once I got settled. The anchor and weather desks were smaller than what I had imagined but the room was like a huge garage with all its media equipment. The weather man who first approached me was friendly and quite handsome. He was really interested in learning about Ms. Wheelchair VA Inc. and me. He interviewed me before the official “live” interview. Didn’t know it was going to be live! It was really interesting to see how they projected the weather map on a green wall from the computer while giving the weather forecast ‘live”. We didn’t see anything on the green wall but we saw the map on the TV monitor - very interesting. Then the noon anchor came and asked me what I wanted to talk about beforehand, only a two minute segment. Lights. Camera, Action! We discussed the mission of Ms. Wheelchair VA and my role as the current title holder. I shared my platform and why it is important to me. I said a lot in two minutes. A photo shoot followed with the whole noon news crew. I sat behind the weather desk with the crew which was fun. I wanted to sit behind the news desk too but couldn’t because of a step up. I didn’t think about it at the time with all of the excitement, perhaps I should encourage them to make it ground level for the next promising news anchor who may be wheelchair dependent. My first stop in Richmond was great!

September 23 Richmond, Va. Lite 98 Clear Channel Radio Interview

Our second stop in Richmond was at Clear Channel Radio for another live interview with our friend Kat Simon at Lite 98. Kat was the MC for the Ms. Wheelchair VA galas when they were held in Richmond. She was so excited to see me. She remembered me as a “great influence and speech writer”. And like the television station, I never had been in a radio studio. It’s a small room with big equipment. She had a nice and very handsome young apprentice working with her.  After chatting to catch up on one another, she interviewed me by recording. Then I said, “That was quick, my TV interview was longer and live.” “Live”, she asked. “We can do live.” The live one was much better because I do better when it’s spontaneous. We discussed my reign thus far, my platform, my inspirations, and what I plan to achieve. Debra Willis, president and board member of Ms. Wheelchair VA, Inc. made a surprise visit to the station to greet us. A very nice surprise. She’s such an encourager. We all love her. Later, Krista and I grabbed some lunch and did some shopping at an indoor mall. And yes, in my sash and crown. I was stopped by shoppers and store clerks asking, “Didn’t I just see you on the news today?”  It is nice being a celeb. I am very thankful and blessed for the opportunity.

September 23  Richmond, Va.  Sheltering Arms - The Power to Overcome

On our last stop in Richmond as part of National Rehabilitation Week was at Sheltering Arms. Krista and I was honored guest at a fundraiser, benefiting the Sheltering Arms Rehab Hospital’s recreation program and to celebrate the triumphs of many Sheltering Arms patients and former patients. The event was held in the grand ballroom of the Jefferson Hotel - Richmond’s finest. When I entered the ballroom, the hostesses welcomed me with the greeting, “There she is!” I was privileged to be among many distinguished guest including the Richmond’s delegates, a senator representative, the commissioner, the presidents of the Virginia Hospital and Healthcare Association and the Children’s Hospital. After a time of food and mingling, the keynote speaker Josh Sunquist, a nationally known author, accomplished athlete, and renowned public speaker entertained us by telling his powerful story in a humorous way. This young man survived cancer when at age six became an amputee. With one leg, he took up ski racing and was selected for the Paralympics ski team in the 2006 Olympics. At that moment, I wanted to yell, ”You go, Josh.” I was so inspired by his story that it made me think about what I want to do next when my reign is over. Afterwards, there was a dessert and coffee reception. I was greeted by many Richmonders’ who already knew me as the 2007 recipient of the Jackie Crews Award. “Two state awards in one month!” they happily exclaimed. “That’s amazing.”  I smiled. It was a grand evening!

October 4 The Plains, Va. “A Day in the Plains”

My traveling companion Sandy and I headed north to the Warrington area to a little town called The Plains. It is a cute little town with lots of beautiful landscapes, friendly citizens and lots of pets, including pet goats. Its population is three hundred but the attendance that day was about seven hundred. Some of the visitors said they come every year. I was invited by “Mary’s Family” to be in the parade.  I didn’t know I was the “Grand Marshall” until I got there. I was a little nervous because I had to go in my manual wheelchair. We had challenges with the van and used the car instead. I was okay after they assigned me to a really nice and strong young man who assured me that I was in good hands. Then I was presented with twelve long stem roses to carry in the parade. Now I was one handed holding on (flowers in the other) going down a hill with a man I had to fully trust (think there’s a sermon in there somewhere). After the parade, we went to where “A Day in the Plains” continued. It was set up like an expo with cotton candy, barbeque, hot dogs, live music, games for children, and lots of venders and table exhibits, including mine. I mentored two sweet teenagers who are wheelchair dependent and others from Mary’s family, a faithful community that cares about families with children who have special needs. I got pictures with two local pageant queens and some local celebs. It was a fun sunshiny day in The Plains.

October 11 Newport News, Va. Disabilities Awareness Day

My companion Krista and I traveled to the Patrick Henry Mall in Newport News. I was invited by the Parks and Recreation Therapeutic Program to make a poetry presentation at their annual Disabilities Awareness Day. It was a big event with exhibits of many businesses catering to the needs to those who are disabled. The stage was big. I wondered how I was supposed to get up on it. They had borrowed a compact wheelchair lift from a rental company. The mall was very noisy. I was a little nervous. My involuntary muscle movements are more visible in noise, but I did okay. I shared how everyone has a story to tell and should have an avenue to tell it. Writing a poem is an easy way to convey a message or to tell a story. I read some of my poems and told them about my poetry students back home who had written about their disabilities. Then I read them some of their poems. I was honored to meet several special guests. I was inspired by the young man who M.C’ed using brail, and a wheelchair dependant gentleman who worked for the state department. After lunch and some shopping, Krista and I decided to drive to the ocean front for fresh seafood at Mai-Mai’s (my favorite). We strolled down the boardwalk, and yes, with my sash and crown. As the ocean winds picked up, we created our own parade. People were smiling and stopping to talk. Sounds of clapping hands came from the balconies. As we ate, I was continually greeted by well-wishers. A young couple even treated us to desserts of our choice. Back to the van and on our way home, I thought of how happy I am when others achieve, and now it has come full circle.

Oct. 16 Americorps Annual Meeting

My traveling buddy Krista and I traveled to Chester, Va. to attend the Americorps’ Annual Meeting. It was held at John Tyler Community College. John Tyler is the only president I can’t remember out of the five presidents from Virginia. Perhaps this trip will help. We gathered in the Nicholas Center Ballroom for the swearing in ceremony. I was amazed how many organizations are funded by Americorps, including Ms. Wheelchair Virginia Inc. I became a member in April when I was crowned. I mingled with other members to learn more about their projects. I was inspired by their efforts.

We divided into groups-first year/second year to discuss goals for the coming year. Then gathered together again for an award presentation. We were then officially sworn in as Americorps members as we recited the Americorps’ pledge. For lunch, we traveled to a nearby restaurant to meet friends Faith and Debbie Patterson who are big participants of Ms Wheelchair Va. Inc-Faith serving as assistant coordinator. It was a very nice informative and inspirational day.

October 31 Covenant Church Community Fall Festival

Covenant Church has been my home church for many years. And the Community Fall Festival is an event I attend each year. It is one of the two annual family events, a safe alterative for trick or treat. Candy, hot dogs, carnival games, climbing wall, and apple cider were some of the fun. The children’s pastor invited to attend as Ms Wheelchair Va. Everyone was happy to see me in my crown/sash. Some passers-by said they liked my costume. I informed that it was the real deal. I laughed, hugged, and played games with the children. I mentor many of them. They were so cute in their array of costumes. They are a highlight of my life. I should have had a dozen. One of my traveling companions Mollie was the face painter and a good one at that. She painted a butterfly that covered her entire face. The kids were standing in a long line so patiently. And she painted a flower on me. To get candy, we had to play a game. I wanted candy. I played ring toss, go fish, answer the Bible verse, and sweep the ball in the box. I got candy and had fun. It made my heart glad to befriend a ten year old girl who is wheelchair dependent and a teenager with Down syndrome. What a lovely and safe evening at Covenant Church.

November 9  Charlottesville, Va. Covenant Church Children’s Program (My Home Church)

How exciting it was to make an appearance as Ms. Wheelchair Va. at Covenant Church Children’s Program. All of the children are dear to my heart. They run up to me all the time with lots of hugs, kisses and sweet things to share. I love it. I should have had a dozen. I spoke to two groups of children from the early and the late morning services. I first talked about my disability, kids are always curious. Then I shared how God had planned for me to be Ms. Wheelchair Va. so I could travel all over the state as spokesperson for individuals with disabilities. The children were raising their hands eagerly waiting to ask lots of questions-my favorite part. Some asked, What do you speak about?” “Who do you live with?” Are you married?” “Do you have children? “Who drives you?” “How do you get in and out of your wheelchair?” I had to do a transfer demonstration for them. I had fun answering their questions. My favorite question of all was, “Are they real diamonds in your crown” “You know honey,” I answered, “I have never asked anyone that question because I don’t want to be disappointed. So let’s dream that they are, okay?” “Okay,” she said. I went home that day refreshed and clean from the innocence of children.

November 18  Charlottesville, Va. The Colonnades Senior Living

I rode the para-transit, like I do all my local engagements, to the Colonnades Senior Living. The Colonnades is one of Charlottesville’s nicest senior complexes, catering to any need. I was invited to speak at an afternoon tea party for the residents in the assisted living wing. And you know how much I like tea parties. I had heads turning as I entered the main entrance. Welcome “Your Highness,” some said as they bowed. I smiled. My hostess met me. It was a small group, including a retired teacher, an actress, and a prominent businessman. I shared my travels as Ms. Wheelchair Va. and why I chose to pursue it. Like children, they were more interested in learning more about my disability and personal life, although my life is an opened book. I was inspired by them as they too shared their accomplishments. We talked and talked. It was such a delightful afternoon. And the refreshments were great.

November 12-14 Hampton, Va. (Wednesday-Friday) Va. Governor Housing Conference

            I had the opportunity to attend the Virginia Governor Housing Conference by applying for and was granted a scholarship which consisted of a written essay from me. I wanted to learn more about affordable and accessible housing and universal design. These are issues that are frequently asked about at many of my engagements. My companion and I stayed at the Embassy Suites, adjacent the convention center. Nice! Very nice! There were workshops electives during the day, which included lunch, and networking receptions at night with live music and heavy hors d'oeuvres cooked fresh on every aisle. I enjoyed mingling and making news friends and running unto friends I already knew. We even ran unto our Mayor, the mayor of Charlottesville. He wasn’t surprised that I was there. He was introducing me to his fellow colleagues as a true Charlottesvillian. Many of the networking displays were very informative such as the Fair Housing Act and Virginia Housing Development Authority. I bought back home some valuable and some disquieting information. We also attended an awards banquet where Governor Caine made a presentation via satellite. I look forward to meeting him in person in a couple of months. I would have to say that the highlight of my three-day trip among eight hundred attendees was meeting the keynote speaker Tiki Barber, a hug, autograph and photo included. He got my photo and autograph too. He had already won my heart in Charlottesville as a Virginia Caviler football favorite and now a football legend/housing advocate. Now it was up and personal, thanks to my companion who placed a note from me on his lectern. Well, that’s another journal entry! 

November 25 Lexington, Va. Rockbridge Advocates for Community Involvement

My companion Mollie and I traveled to Lexington to a Rockbridge Advocates for Community Involvement luncheon. Joan Manley, friend and former contestant of Ms. Wheelchair Va. invited us. I was the keynote speaker. RACI’s mission is to increase accessibility of recreation programs and services and to create more accessible sidewalks and more accessible and affordable transportation. They meet regularly, participating in local programs and activities reinforcing the need for accessible services and sending an awareness message to planners and organizers that ALL individuals want and can be involved. I love Joan. She can get things moving. She is definitely a mover a shaker. She sent me a long list of topics they would be interested in: Charlottesville Parks and Recreation accessible recreation, VSA arts, par-transit-availability-costs, quality of life-challenges, support services, 1support network (friends, aides, family), hobbies, poetry, Ms Wheelchair Virginia Pageant and the national competition. I joyously covered all the above and felt good about my presentation. The group was warm and friendly. I felt right at home. I love meet new friends that make me feel like I have been knowing them for years. The following is an excerpt from Joan’s note of appreciation: “Your visit and presentation provided an inspirational message to all present that individuals with disabilities can be active participants in community life. Your efforts and accomplishments remind us that a positive attitude and determination (and a good sense of humor) can lead to personal and public success.

December 11  A Tribute to My Father Earnest J. Williams

My long time best friend, my Father, graduated to his eternal home in heaven. The man I made everyone admire through my writings and speeches. He was a pioneer disabilities advocate, advocating my rights to be a mainstream classroom in the late fifties. He opened a door to who I am today, and he was so proud of my accomplishments. A son of a farmer, he loved gardening and fishing. By trade, he worked his way up the ladder from a plumbing and heating helper to a licensed professional, specializing in commercial boilers. He was drafted and proudly served in the United States Navy in World War II. He loved to tell naval stories and stories about his parents and growing up on the farm.  Storytelling became his past time; more so in later life. A fine Christian man, he was an active church member, serving as a musician, an usher, and a member of the Board of Trustees. He loved southern cooking, old hymns, bluegrass music and western swing, which was his family’s heritage. He always loved to dress up and his favorite color was blue. He never met a stranger. With his natural smile, laughter and soft encouraging words, he was always willing to help anyone in need. He was loved by all who knew him. Today, his legacy lives on through me. As the 2007 recipient of the Jackie Crews Excellence in Leadership Award and Ms. Wheelchair Va. 2008-09, I continue to advocate the abilities and challenges of individuals with disabilities.

December 20  Charlottesville Parks & Rec Therapeutic Christmas Party

I love Christmastime. I love decorating and going to plays and hosting and going to parties. And one party I never miss is the Charlottesville Parks & Rec Therapeutic Christmas Party for the youth (mostly young adults). Most of the attendees I work with year round as a self enrichment instructor in public school and recreation special needs programs. They all came with their wish lists for Santa, knowing he was going to make a special appearance. And as always, they all welcome me at the door with lots of hugs, kisses, and affection. There were music, cookies, punch, presents and a lot of other fun stuff. Then there was Santa. Excitement filled the air. Mildred had the camera rolling while we each had a turn. I had my picture taken with Santa too. We have this inside joke, Santa and I, about what I want for Christmas. A husband, but he never seems to appear. I must be looking under the wrong tree!

January 3 Charlottesville Parks & Rec Therapeutic New Year's Dance

What better way to start the new year but with my special friends down at the Rec. They love it when I come to their dances and dance with them . D. J. Andy always seems to know all my favorite songs. What’s so precious about these events is that these participants are so contented in the smallest of things. I once went on a weekend trip with them to Virginia Beach. My heart so was touched as I watched them. I came home with a new perspective on life and wrote the following poem:

A World I Never Knew

By Rose Williams

I walked into another world one day

A world I never knew, not some fantasy land

Like Treasure Island or Oz

But a real place

Where innocence and laughter live

A world of love and affection

Melting the coldest of hearts

Big happy faces

Contented in the smallest of things

Like the touch of an ocean wave

Sitting on a park bench watching people go by

And a Big Mac, coke and fries

I walked into another world one day

A world I never knew, with lots of simple pleasures

A song and dance, giggles and hugs

And ice cream that’s dripping

Where medicine is commonplace

Still and quiet. Then with excitement

A movie, pizza and a swim in the pool

I walked into another world one day

A world I never knew, unlike my world

Of busyness and change

But a place where the busiest of mind can rest

Now, I often visit this world, the world I never knew

To keep my perspective

On life and the simplest of things

A wonderful world

Where innocence and laughter live

And it has made a difference

January 18 Charlottesville, Va.  Martin Luther King Jr. Celebration

The assistant coordinator of MWVA Faith Patterson and her mom met me at the Martin Luther King Jr. Performing Arts Center to celebrate his life and legacy, one of my heroes. Growing up in the sixties, I was so inspired by his quest for human rights. As a teenager, I felt the plight of the black community because I too was made fun of and pushed aside. This annual celebration included a mass community choir singing Negro spirituals, several keynote speakers and an award presentation. Rev. Williams Johnson is among a long list of recipients of the local NAACP award. What made this celebration so special is that thirty years later, Dr. King’s dream comes true as we swear in a the first African American president. Yes, excitement was in the air. The excitement carried over to the next morning when I learned that Faith’s and my picture landed on the front page of the local newspaper in front of a giant wall picture of Dr. King.

January 23 Charlottesville Senior Center Writing for Pleasure Class

Ms. Bettie, the facilitator of the Writing for Pleasure class called me with excitement and invited me to come speak to the seniors about my adventures as a writer and motivational speaker and my journeys as Ms. Wheelchair Va. They all had heard of me from various sources. Ms. Bettie told me to prepare for about twenty people although they have about forty plus registered. Good thing that I brought extra hand outs. The room got smaller as they added more tables and chairs for many writers and writers want-to-be’s. One man looked at me and said, “You must be popular, we haven’t this big of a crowd for long time.” First I spoke about how I had chosen to pursue the Ms. Wheelchair Va. title to promote the arts on a broader scale, especially promoting the arts in individuals with disabilities. Then I gave them a kindergarten version of all the tools and techniques I had learned in the many writing classes I had taken, with hand-outs to take home. Afterwards, we had a reading. I read my poem, “Overdue Tip,” which is everyone’s all time favorite (you can read it at the end of my essay, “Waiter, There’s a Bad Attitude in my Soup.” in the article’s link.) After they read some of their works, I lead them in writing a couple of poems. It was a fun afternoon. I didn’t get any pictures of this event. The man who I asked to take pictures must had got too excited and laid my camera down on the table in movie mode and all I got was the wall and voices.

January 24  Charlottesville Dogwood Pageant

I received a call from our local Dogwood Festival wanting to know if I would be interested in being a judge in the Charlottesville Dogwood Ms. Teen & Ms. Preteen Pageant. Our friend Mildred Spicer had printed my MWVA picture and info in the Charlottesville Parks and Rec brochure. I gladly accepted. What a great opportunity. I was a little nervous at first but calmed down once I received a big welcome. I was Judge One among a distinguished panel-a former queen now in her seventies, a talk show host, an ex-football coach turn lead singer, and a former judge for over 200 Ms. America preliminaries. It was an all day event. The contestants were great. I was asked primarily judge on public speaking. We judged photos, fashion, speeches, pose, etc. There were three sisters competing against each other. I thought of my sisters. I don’t think so. After the winners were announced, there was a photo shoot. I had my picture taken with the winners and all the visiting queens. I had awesome time. Hope to do more of that!

February 13 Richmond Capital Governor Tim Kaine

Our trip to Richmond to meet with Governor Kaine was very inspiring. He was very friendly and easy to talk to. We talked about my platform, the arts and about the vibrate art program we have in Charlottesville to promote artistic value in individuals with disabilities. I presented him with our current VSA Arts annual poetry book project and calendar featuring works of local artists with disabilities. I told him that I am thankful for the opportunity as Ms. Wheelchair Va. to promote the arts throughout the state and share the accomplishments of a unique population.  MWVA board member Dr. Fuller was a wonderful host. We had lunch after touring the new capital and learning much more about our historic state. He is brilliant. In the afternoon I had an appointment with Speaker of the House Bob, who was also very nice and interested in the therapeutic arts. I also presented him with a calendar and poetry. Before we left Richmond we went by to say hi to MWVA president Debra Willis and friends I had met from previous pageants very nice visit. We also visited my companion Krista's mom. Krista is from Richmond and kept running into old friends. We were invited one of Krista's friends to come by the Red Cross so they too could meet MWVA.   Back home in Charlottesville-a Tip-Top Diner dinner, in my crown and all. It was a very good day with memories that will last forever!

February 28 (Saturday) Charlottesville, Va. Ms Wheelchair Va. Reunion

The Ms. Wheelchair Virginia reunions are some of the highlights of my year. This one I hosted in my city. It was a breath of fresh air considering I just had came from a memorial service of a thirteen year old. I always look forward to seeing all my friends who I love and admire. We gathered at one of Charlottesville’s finest restaurants the Millmont Grille for some good food and conversation. We always love to catch up on what’s been happening with everyone.  We talked about the upcoming pageant with excitement. I thought about how it would feel not being a contestant in the next pageant since I had been in the last four. Then again, I wouldn’t want to be in the fifth one. I smile when I think of all the places I’ve been and the people have met this year. Anyways, it was a fun afternoon at the Mill.

March 7 Richmond Virginia, Victory Games

My friend Johanna and I traveled to Richmond to be a part of the Virginia Victory Games at the Kemper Athletic and Fitness Center. The MWVA title holders have the honor of attending this inspiring annual event. The games are similar to Special Olympics and the gym is designed specially for children and teens with disabilities to race around the huge track and to participant in other sports activities offered that day, such as club throw, softball throw, bowling, standing long jump and shotput. The M. C. of the event was NFL’s Ken Oxendine of the Atlanta Falcons. I’ve certainly been in good company in the sports world during my reign, among them Tiki Barber and now Ken, both great and friendly guys. I was touched by the courage of all the participants in the games. They tried very hard and did very well. I was privileged to mentor many of them. On the way home I thought about how determined they were to win and what supported families they had. I smiled. They will go far in life.

March 21-22 (Saturday-Sunday) Christiansburg, Pearisburg, Penbrook

My friend and great traveling companion Krista and I headed toward southwestern Virginia. It was the trip I’d been looking forward to for months. Pastor Shawn Wilmer had invited me to come and make a speech presentation at Riverview Baptist in Pearisburg. Riverview is the home church of Billie Jean Huskey, former contestant and first runner up in 2006. Like many of the contestants, Billie Jean and I became close friends. I couldn’t wait to visit her world. Our first stop was in Roanoke to have a nice lunch with our good friend Susan who had moved there from Charlottesville six years ago after getting married. Then from there we traveled to Christiansburg we where to spend the night. Billie Jean met us there for dinner at the Olive Garden. We were forty-five minutes from her town Penbrook and the church which was in Pearisburg was five minutes from there. I was amazed at all these little towns were clustered together including Blacksburg- five minutes from Penbrook. I love the church, a solid wood knotted pine log cabin, absolutely beautiful, and the people were beautiful solid Christians. I felt a kindred spirit.   I was introduced in both morning services and guest speaker in the evening service. I spoke for forty-five minutes to about five hundred people and was well received. I told my testimony and how God had raised me up for such a time as this to become spokesperson to elevate the accomplishments and challenges of individuals with disabilities and to promote the arts which is my platform. I really enjoyed spending personal time and lunch with Billie Jean in her brand new home. It was a great weekend in Southwestern Virginia. Krista and I had a great time and plan to revisit someday.

Post Engagement, Arlington, Va.

My companion Krista and I traveled to Arlington, Va. for me to speak at a Kiwanis Club Luncheon. Their mission is serving children of the world.  And I know about children, mentored hundreds of them. My friend Dolores Dabney, who lives there, introduced me to the organization and called her friend Ed Nolen to see if I could come and speak at their monthly meeting. We were welcomed with opened arms. I spoke about how my parents and grandparents influenced my life in that I never learned the phrase, “I can’t.” And how it took four pageants for me to grow into the role of Ms. Wheelchair Va. I shared my platform, the arts, and that I believe everyone has a story to tell and should have an avenue to express themselves, whether through writing, visual arts, music, mime, etc. I shared one of my popular poems. I believe that is why I can stay positive because I can release my feelings in such a way. It was a wonderful day in Northern Virginia.